Originally published at https://yourislandnews.com/a-thank-you-letter-to-mental-health-professionals/ on Aug 14, 2019
Recently, I was at an appointment when the receptionist noticed I was dressed far nicer than my usual casual look and inquired why.
I proudly told her I was working full time again, to which she wanted to know what I was doing.
My pride swelled even further as I announced it was with the mentally ill population.
The frown on her face was instantaneous as she muttered her apologies. I knew that those with Mental Illnesses faced a horrible Stigma, but I was unaware Mental Health Professionals faced that Stigma as well.
This is where I am at a complete loss because I always thought working in the medical field was prestigious as in “Your child is a doctor? You must be so proud!”
Another thought I had was that those who make a career out of serving others are honorable: military, firefighters, etc.
So why is it that I am constantly having to explain to others that my career choice wasn’t a last resort because I couldn’t find anything else or anything “better?” Why do others feel sorry for me?
Well before I ever dreamed of walking down this path, I felt mental health professionals were unsung heroes who were in the position on often pushing a boulder up a hill.
Insurance companies treat mental health benefits separate from other medical benefits even though mental illnesses are, in fact, medical conditions. There are often much lower provider reimbursements in comparison to other medical professionals, lots of red tape involving authorizations and unrealistic visit limitations that force many in the field to go private in order to make a their career livable.
The result is less providers accepting insurances makes fewer cost efficient options for patients to receive the care they need.
Being a mental health professional is by no means a flashy, high-profile or high-paying career in most instances, In my personal experience those who choose this path do so because of the genuine want to make a difference.
Glamorous, hardly. Respectable, highly so.
Mental health facilities are closing all over the country, services becoming greatly reduced, yet the population keeps growing.
Currently, 1 in 5 Americans will experience a mental illness in their lifetime. Just as those with cancer, diabetes, HIV, those with a mental illness need resources for survival that include professionals to help them manage their symptoms in hopes of having an opportunity at a more fulfilling life.
Where will these 1 in 5 end up without the help they need? Most likely in jail, on the streets or dead.
That is what people should feel sorry about, not those working hard to prevent these horrible things from happening.
For most of my life I have felt insecure in the professional world often pushing through just to pay the bills. Working with the mentally ill is unlike anything I could have ever imagined for myself in the best possible way, because it is here I have the opportunity to take my first-hand knowledge to help my peers better navigate their own journeys. Hopefully, far less bumpy than mine was.
In reality, it is I who feels sorry for anyone too ignorant to understand the important work that is being done to help make the world at large a much better place.
One in 5 means your neighbors, your coworkers, your family and your friends. Mental health matters affect everyone.
This is for all the mental health professionals who have helped me in the last 30 years. Because I would not have survived without you.
Thank you.